![Life Goals, Wife Goals: Hello and welcome to a very special edition of Life Goals, Wife Goals. My co-hot couldn't be here today - because I'm trying to surprise her, you see. Caitlin and I have known each other for over a decade now. And last year, after much secret pining from afar, we finally started dating. It's been an amazing nine months and I can't imagine my life without her. Caitlin is: Brilliant, Sweet, Kind, Funny, Wonderful, Beautiful. [graph ranging from life to wife, ranking Caitlin as an off-the-charts wife!!!!] My perfect-100% wife goals. So, what do you say, Caitlin? Would you marry me?](https://pomemag.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/LGWG_Proposal_FINALRS.png)
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It’s dark, it’s cold, it’s about to be year three of a global pandemic! Let’s huddle around the ol’ virtual trash fire of internetland for warmth with this week’s Afternoon Snack.
My fascination began with the 1979 film Alien. I was six when my parents let me watch it with them one night. The idea of an alien monster, called the Xenomorph in the movie, lurking in the vents of a spaceship was terrifying and invigorating. I wanted to know the Xenomorph’s motives. Why was the crew scared of it? Rewatching the movie as a pre-teen filled in the blanks. The crew feared the unknown, and this alien monster, for me, represented the misunderstood. I associated this monster with how I saw my body: strange, grotesque, and unnatural. It took me until my thirties to confront and reclaim my monsters.
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